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Killing Me Softly

With Your Words

Come back often, as I will be adding more, and more. Also, I will be building a Parental Alienation web site where people can search for help, assistance, share their stories, and hopefully, in time, create some laws that will make the parent who alienates a child from another parent, be responsible for their actions. If you drive over the speed limit, you know you could get a speeding ticket. If you physically injure a child, or other person, you know you could be thrown in jail. If you sexually abuse a child, you know you could be thrown in jail. But, if you mentally abuse, brainwash, or alienate a child from their parent, it is not a crime. Is this right? Is this just? Is this good for a child? No, laws need to be made, to make parents responsible for ENCOURAGING a good relationship with the other parents (which I did for the 10 years I raised Lyndsey), and legally PUNISH the parent who uses a child as a sick and sad tool to try to "get back" at the parent who left them.

Parental Alienation

This is the beginning of my story, about how my daughters, and my ex-wife, jointly killed me, from the inside out. This is not a murder that the United States court system deems worthy of protecting United States citizens from the harmful affects of it. And, it's on a rampid up swing of the number of people that are using it, with ill intent, to harm the one that it is used against...

Introduction

My Story

The Beginning

The Marriage to Shaylene Rose (well, she had many last names before I met her)

The Divorce - Amazing how no one had to worry about making "Mom" mad anymore!

The First Years as a Single Dad - While their mom partied and hmmm...well, you know...

The Mother that wouldn't let her daughters even call her "Mom" and all the living boyfriends and drunk escapades

A New Life with Pam Petersen (she also had several last names before me) - She had years of experience of putting on a facade.

The Real Life with Pam Carter- Reality Sets In How Sick She Really Is

Losing Crystal - Learning what Parental Alienation Really Was

Running The Chronicle Sentenial Mist of St. Helens Oregon when Pam had (what I recall) a break down

Pams Mom dies and leaves almost all of her belongings to Melissa Petersen (Pam's daughter), including The Chronicle Sential Mist, instead of to Pam! And, had Pam's uncles monitor the newspaper to insure that Pam would run it properly (which in my, and many others oppinions, she didn't)

Did Pam misuse corporate funds?

The Two Witches (Pam Carter & Shaylene Carter) Trying to take Lyndsey Away From Me. Shaylene told Lyndsey "I'm going to take you away from your Dad".

The Worthless (and probably) Cheating Lawyer - Lance Wessell - If you asked me, I would recommend you DON'T hire him as a lawyer!

After the Stress of the Child Custody Case - Professionals working with Lyndsey to try to help her cope with what her mom put her through with/in the child custody case.

Moving to Minnesota - The Next Chapter of Parental Alienation

Taking Lyndsey's Mind and Bribing Her to Move and Stay with Shaylene - How (AND WHY????) would a mother take a daughter who loves and respects her Father, and in two months (summer visitation), turns her completely against her Father, to the point of almost hating him. How sick and dimented is that?

Fighting For Visitation - How the mother (Shaylene) Dis-Couraged Lyndsey From Visitation

My sister, Mindy Slayton (Mindy Carter, Minday Asher, to name a few) - Family, or Foa? - Is blood thicer than water, or is some family just sick enough, stupid and gulible enough, and self consummed enough, to be the sadest of all, a back stabber sister. (she ain't MY family anymore! She's dead to me.)

Oregon Child Services Division (CSD - Child Protective Services) - How They Endangered Lyndseys Life By Not Stopping the Mother and Step-dad from Drinking and Driving, and Drinking and Boating

Thanksgiving 2004 - The Ultimate Parental Alienation Games that Lyndsey Isn't Smart Enough to See the Truth

In the Hospital with a Broken Heart, and Lyndsey Won't Even Call Me - How Sad and Sick is That?

Christmas 2004 - ANOTHER Contept of Court - Shaylene Refuses to Send Lyndsey for my Visitation Time

Christmas 2005 - Trashed by Lyndsey on Christmas Day (I'm pathetic according to her?) - and Dealing with her Smart Ass step-father Who Has Never Had a Child of His Own (may not be man enough?)

The Beginning

It's called, Parental Alienation. It's a fatal disease that is sweeping across the United States, faster than any fire could consume the land. Faster than any hurricane could destroy a city, like the Katrina hurricane did. There are no vaccinations, or medications, to protect, or stop this disease from spreading. And, a doctor can not do anything to help.

Lawyers love this disease, as they pray off of emotionally distraught alienated parents, dying inside, desperately clawing their way through life, trying to keep their children in their lives. These lawyers take the money of the victims, but don't tell them that this is a disease that can be stopped, or reversed. Instead, they will draw the distraught parent into court battles, that they know the courts won't do anything about, and couldn't care less about what is happening to both the parent, and the child(ren) involved.

Yes, children are drawn into this disease. My child, Lyndsey Carter, and my adopted child, Crystal Carter, were victims of this disease. They were victims of their mothers sick and evil motives to alienate them from their father, me, Ron Carter. This disease is called Parental Alienation, and I have this disease, and am dying with this disease.

What motivated me to create this web page about Parental Disease? Today is my daughters (Lyndsey Carter) birthday. She has been alienated from me, she used to be a Daddy's Girl, but now hates me. Upon calling her to wish her Happy Birthday, she told me not to call her anymore and says that her step father, Thomas Keiner ( 4212 Bison Ct Ne, Salem, OR 97305 Phone: (507) 463-8212) is now her father. This is the results of many years of her mother on a campaign to alienate her from me, which has not become successful, sadly enough.

Why would someone be so sick and psychotic want to alienate their child from the child's other parent? This is against a parent (me) that raised both girls (Lyndsey and Crystal) for 5 years on his own, then raised Lyndsey an additional 5 years on his own.

The Mother

Shaylene Rose (maiden name), Shaylene ? (1st husband), Shaylene ? (2nd husband), Shaylene Carter (3rd husband...me), and now Shaylene Keiner, has had a very interesting life, to say the least.

(to be added to: Marital track record, job track record, )

Shaylene and Thomas Keiner were married on September 7, 2002. She had the odasity, and insensitivity to ask Lyndsey, if she (Lyndsey) wanted them to get married on Lyndsey's birthday (September 14th)! Little could she comprehend, but that is an excellent example of how self consumed and nassesistic she is.

Shaylene's job track record is also very shaky. She has lost many jobs, and it's hard to say whether she's still at her last known job location!.

(Crystal Carter)

To be continued...

This website will have more information added to it, and you are welcome to email me with questions, etc. Ron Carter

All views and oppinions are my own, as well as things I've seen and observed.